I sent this:
Look, I'm going to be honest here; everyone who knew you misses you. Whenever someone asks "who do you miss me the most", the oldest of us always respond "Tony" (or sometimes "GM" as a joke).
It's been over three years, I know. We've changed, you've changed, blah blah blah, but I just have to say: our change was in a good way. We don't care if someone likes extreme metal or hardcore punk or "emo" or post-avant jazzcore. Well, we make fun of Orange, but he likes Tool, so it's okay.
In fact, all of our music tastes have expanded, even Jinzo's (now referred to as "Bran"). My top-played artists are The Beatles, Nirvana, Foo Fighters, Radiohead and White Stripes. I don't exclude music without having heard it any more (er... for the most part).
I'm rambling, I know, but we all miss you. You were our friend, and you just up and left. Sure, Eif and I have left before, but we came back within three months.
OH, and Svart doesn't come much at all any more. I run everything, for better or worse. We use ye ye ye (now referred to as "Progress" or "ADVENTURE").
I understand if you don't want to come back, but, if you do, we're usually here:
http://xat.com/Teh_Forum
Whatever you decide, I won't hold against you. I'm gonna shut up now before I write the next great American novel.